1. Departures from the normal nuclear family are now 75% of the American population.

2. Persons living alone account for 1/4 of American households.

3. At least 14% of women in their 20s and 30s will remain childless- -almost 2 times as high as 30 years ago.

4. 1 out of every 5 children is born is to an unwed mother.

5. The U.S. divorce rate is the highest in the world.

6. 49% of marriages made this year will end up in divorce.

7. 1 out 3 of those treated for mental disorders in hospitals is a teenager.

8. 1 out of 10 boys has at least been sexually harassed in their households.

9. 1 out of 3 women has been sexually assaulted before they were 18 and 80% of these assaults happened in their own homes--the most dangerous place for young women is in their own home.

10. 3 out of every 5 children born this year will live in a single- parent household for at least part of their childhood.

11. 94% of American households are dysfunctional.

12. You are more likely to be killed by someone you know than a stranger.

13. 3 out of every 100 adult males in the U.S. are in the corrections system--1 out of every 3 black males has been involved with the corrections system

14. 44% of children in the Commonwealth of Virginia prefer their TV sets to their fathers.

15. 30% of births in the US in 1993 were to unwed mothers--an almost eightfold increase since 1940. The majority of these unmarried mothers were not teenagers or minorities.

16. 60% of births outside marriage in 1993 were to white women, and 70% were to women older than 20.

17. Among married women born between 1954 and 1963, 82% had sex before they were married, compared with 65% among women born a decade earlier.

18. Welfare is not a significant contributor to recent increases in out of wedlock childbearing. Evidence linking welfare benefits with increase in nonmarital births is inconsistent--and when a link is found, it tends to be small.

19. In 1992, 6% of unmarried women with bachelor's degrees had children, up from 2.7% 10 year earlier. Also, the percentage of never-married women in managerial and professional jobs with children rose from 3.1% to 8.6% from 1982 to 1992.

20. The unmarried mother rate for black women slipped from 48.8% in 1982 to 46.2% in 1992, while for white women overall it rose from 6.7% to 12.9%. For teenagers, the single mother rate slipped from 8.2% to 6.5% over that decade.

21. The $36,959 median family income after inflation in 1993 was $66 higher than it was in 1973, even though many more families are supported by two breadwinners.

22. Workers with less than a four-year college degree, now three out of every four workers , have experienced the greatest declines in income. Also most effected are women, younger and blue-collar workers.

23. Since 1985, overall poverty rates for children under 18 have ranged between 19% and 22%, and it is the youngest children who are at greatest risk--24% of children under age 6 in 1992 versuse 21% of all children.

24. From the late 1960s into the 1990s, poverty rates in single-parent homes hovered around 50%. But whereas in 1965 only 10% of (own) children under 18 lived in single-parent households, by 1994 it was 25% overall and 60% among African Americans. In 1994, female-headed households accounted for 54% of all children in poverty, up from 24% in 1960. The figures for African Americans are more astounding still: 82% in 1994 versus approximately 30% in 1960.

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These data were taken from James Hillman's "Myths of the Family" John Bradshaw's "Homecoming", "Public Schools and the Public Good," Karl Alexander, Social Forces, 76:1, Sept. 1997, and the Roanoke Times (Oct. 31, 1995) (September 13, 1996).