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Graphic By: Baudi Ratcliffe-Hollins

There is one glaringly obvious problem. If this relationship is so perfect and deserves the envy of others, then why do you need a day so cliché and demanding to be reminded of this? I'm not saying you shouldn't tell your loved ones how special they are to you on Valentine's Day, but instead you should give them royal treatment every day.

True love should be celebrated daily with as much care and concern that is given for Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day is an excellent day to express your appreciation for loved ones. However, if this is the only day you can set aside for love, then something isn't right. Tiny gestures like filling up your loved one's gas tank, taking the trash out for them, or a thoughtful card are the true indications of love. You cannot assume your relationship is superior to all others simply because you give or receive chocolates or roses on Valentine's Day.

This Valentine's Day I suggest that everyone carry on as normal. I'm celebrating it by spending time with two people I care about, my best friend and my boyfriend. But this year when Feb. 15 comes, try just as hard to remind your loved ones how important they are. Do the same again on March 20, Dec. 16, and every day in between. You also have every right to expect this consideration and care in return. Valentine's Day is just another day to show you care. Don't forget to put that much effort into expressing your feelings each and every day.