Well Ladies and Gents, welcome to the first article of
The Bed Post. This is Radfordäs first true sex column written by a member of
the
male sex. Yeah, bummer for all you frat rats who thought this was going to be
written by some big breasted blond. Many of you might say, ÜWait a minute, the
university newspaper has a sex column; how is this the first? Well, it is a
first because it is honest and not full of proverbial bull crap. When you
read
and respond to this article you get nothing but honesty and respect for your
opinions. We arenät politically correct here; we eat meat, we whack off and
if
you donät like it, too bad. Welcome to America. There is my disclaimer. If
you are easily offended or donät like sex or sex talk then feel free to view
another article or go shopping on the Wal-Mart website.
As I said before, I am a 22-year old male who is a senior here at Radford
University. I have been sexually active for some time, looked at various
porn mags and sites, studied numerous sex guides, and studied relationships of
all kinds. Does this make me a pervert? Hell no! This makes me educated and
aware. So I hope to pass what knowledge and advice I have on to you in the
most
honest and truthful way. Some of what I say is my opinion and you have the
choice to accept or ignore it; I have no problem with that. I am a
heterosexual male, have a wonderful fianc¼, and have no problem with anyoneäs
sexuality.
I thought it fitting to begin with some questions from students around campus
just like you. Letäs get started.
Shaggy,
What do you think is the biggest turn-off for men on campus?
~Valerie
Wondering on Campus
Well Val, I could tell you a few things, but I think the number one turn-off
for
guys on a college campus is smoking. From talking with my amigos and
experiencing it myself, there is nothing more disgusting and more of a turn-
off
than a chick puffing on a cancer stick. Say a guy on campus sees a
cute girl and as he walks toward her she pulls out a Virginia Slim. Chances
are the guy will turn away. Guys want to kiss a pair of soft lips, not
an exhaust pipe.
One other turn-off on college campuses that many girls are guilty of is too
much makeup. Vanity is okay but too much is ridiculous. It tells a guy that
the girl is trying too hard or is a complete and utter slut. So unless the
man
of your dreams wants to date a clown, keep the makeup levels down and let the
natural you shine.
Shags,
Why do guys masturbate?
~Amy
Wondering the wonders of the Tool
For whatever reasons, many people think that masturbation is a perverted way
of
sexual satisfaction or it is just another way of saying, ÜI am not successful
with the opposite sex. Both of these points are far from the truth. It is
natural, and quite healthy, for a strapping young man to go for a game of one-
on-one hand hockey once in a while. There is nothing perverted or wrong about
this at all. And it definitely does not mean they are not successful with the
opposite sex. Guys masturbate for various reasons. For some, it does give
sexual satisfaction because everyone knows there are no limits to our
fantasies. Masturbation is also a huge stress reliever. Itäs like after
having sex when there is that period of complete happiness and contentment.
Masturbation does that for a guy. Spanking the monkey also prepares a guy for
sex. It is an underground fact that if a guy masturbates a few hours prior to
sex, his stamina and hold out time increase. That should make his partner
happy!
There are always exceptions. Yes, there are some guys out there who are
complete pervs and masturbate for the sheer thrill. However, what you do behind
closed doors is no oneäs business but your own and I will not judge you for
it.
One final thought: Females donät get away so easy from this question.
They masturbate for all the same reasons.
Well folks, this was a small sample of The Bed Post. If you have any
questions,
comments, or anything to talk about then just put your questions in the
feedback column below or e-mail whim@radford.edu with your sex questions and I
will get to them as soon as I can. Check this section out next week for more
of peopleäs ÜS word.
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Name: Dave
Year: Class 02
Comments:
Great work man. Nice to see someone who doesn't care about outside opinions.
Name: Shaggy
Comments:
Feedback option was down but now it has been fixed. Comment, ask questions, or what not to your heart's content!
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