If You Think I'm Self-Righteous...
Jeff Davis | Vent Section
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There have been some interesting comments in the feedback forms lately. I've
been accused of being preachy, being self-righteous, you name it, they're all
the same. I'll be the first to admit I can get pushy with my ideas and I won't try to make excuses for it. Nonetheless, I was inspired. I want to show you someone who is very, very preachy. If you
honestly think my writing is that sanctimonious, then you really need to see
some of Monique Wittig's work.
Wittig, from what I can gather, is an extremely intelligent, radical feminist.
She's written several books, including "The Lesbian Body," "The Straight Mind
and Other Essays," and countless other works that spout some great ideas...and
some ideas that are based on more generalizations and stereotypes than anything
I've ever read.
My roommate Shaun, a grad student in the English Department here, let me read
some of her theories. He's taking a Literary Scholarship class and has a
binder full of them. He gave me a warning: "Jeff, if you're a living,
breathing human being, this stuff will make you want to tear it up."
Of what I read of Wittig, she has one particular idea I am quite fond of. When
you label a person anything, be it "lesbian," "gay," "feminist," or what have
you, you begin to see the person as that label and only that label. It becomes
confining, and likens those labeled to a certain role that becomes difficult to
escape. It makes people think that one lesbian, for example, is no different
from another. If we all take a good look around, we see this everywhere. Some
of us have gotten beyond it and some of us have not. I think she's right.
But here's where she assumes too much: she
believes all men consciously enjoy
dominating women. She believes sex, marriage, and even heterosexuality come from oppression.
Don't take what I say there as gospel. That is a very condensed paragraph and
it leaves a lot out. I searched the Internet for some Wittig-related sites
that explain her theories much better than I can. They're rather interesting
to say the least. Whether or not you agree with her is up to you:
QueerTheory.com
University of Arizona
Women.it
WomenWriters.net
French Feminism
I don't know what makes her believe what she does. I think she's bought into a
very distant, cruel idea of what all men are like. As we all know, everyone is
different. Her theories about heterosexuality and men are interesting when put
against the backdrop of her label theory.
Maybe she's saying something more, in the style of Mary Wollstonecraft.
Perhaps this is just an extremely crafty use of language, getting the reader
fired up. I think it's extremely preachy. How else am I supposed to look
at "marriage is enslavement" when my parents have spent the best 22 years of
their lives together? I know for sure that I am attracted to girls...anyway, you
know where I'm going.
No matter how much I disagree with her, I really respect Ms. Wittig. She threw
a chunk of her heart onto paper and to this day continues to stand up for what
she believes. And what we believe is what we see as right. Usually.
Now please excuse me, I have to write about the double-breasted toucan that
will be extinct in the rain forest by American multi-national corporations
harvesting the wood for paneling in BMWs and the woe I am feeling because you
people don't care...