I have a lot of problems with my girlfriend, well, if you want to call her that. It seems that she likes to play games, and every time I think that shes my girl friend, well, she just tells me otherwise. But she hugs and squeezes me like she is my girlfriend and she gets jealous when other girls flirt with me. As if that wasn't bad enough, I think she's bumping and grinding with an old friend of hers back home, but I'm not sure. When ever I bring it up, she calls me on being parnoid. When I say I want to meet this guy, she gets all defensive. She thinks I don't trust her, which while true, doesn't mean that I want her calling me on it all the time, any suggestion? What do I
do??
thanks a lot,
One Confused Dude
One Confused Dude,
I say confront the girl. I think she's playin' ya like a pair dueces in a bad game of strip poker. You tell her that if she's not gonna take this relationship to the next level, then you're takin' your nachos and cheese where they're more appreciated. If she's really messin' with a jerky back home, then definately dump her.
That's 'bout all I gotta say on the subject -Vinnie. Good luck, One Confused Dude.
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Name: RU chickie Major: friend Comments:
I think "One confused dude" has a problem very similar to a friend of mine. My friend is really into this girl and I know he would do anything for her but she insists on playing him; if he's reading this I would just like to say that she SO does not deserve you and if I were you I'd find a REAL woman!!
Name:Jack Comments:
The whole reason Vinnie talks the way he does is to give his character some personality. We wanted him to stand out and be different. We are in no way trying to stereotype anyone.
Name: Bet. Comments:
It's nice to see that cultural steriotyping is alive and well at college campuses. What's next, an advice column from cornelius the share-cropper?: "Well, Massa' I does think that you alls roommates needs to be a 'talking mo." Or perhaps it would be fun to have an dear abby letter to Pedro the immigrant worker: "You quero open communcaition!" Or you could invent a fun hassidic jew fellow that is baffled by all the goyum's questions that he just repeats says his punchline: "Oy Viegh!" Steriotyping any group into a cute little entertainment charector is immature and backword.
