A few weekends ago I was at a frat party with some friends in my
building. At the party I hooked up with really hot guy who was so sweet
and charming. It turned out that he lived so he offered to walk me home.
We ended up in his room and we were both pretty buzzed so we started
fooling around. We didn't have sex or anything, but we did get pretty hot
and heavy.
Now he won't even look at me sideways. Whenever I say hi, he
either pretends he doesn't hear me or gives me a curt little nod and
walks off. I don't get it because the way he was talking that night he
said I could trust him, and that he wanted to be in a relationship with
me. I am so confused, and mad, but I still really like him! What do I do?
Sincerely,
Fool in Love
Dear Fool in Love,
First of all it's not the most intelligent thing in the world to
go up to the room of a guy you just met, I don't care how sweet he is,
especially after drinking! I've got two words for you child: date rape.
Danger is every where. Being stupid and having fun comes with a pretty
high price. You need to be sure you're willing to pay it!
Something tells me you are lacking in the self respect
department. What self respecting woman would want to be with a guy who
obviously is a liar. It may come as a shock to you, but very few people
build a lasting relationship after a few beers and a making out session.
I seriously doubt all the sweet nothing he whispered in your ear where
intentions of going steady. You used each other for a pleasurable
experience and now it's over.
You need to be much more careful and much less naive. You're in
the big bad world now and not everyone is as trustworthy as you would
like them to be. The best advice I can give you is to drop your crush
cause either way you'll only end up hurt in the end. This is a lesson in
life that hopefully you can use to make wiser romantic decisions. Take
care and bless you.
Always,
Nikki
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